
The Leather-Bound Chronicles
of a Gentleman

NOTICE
This journal is my personal views and a snipped of the stories I wish to share with the world. I make every effort to ensure that they will not upset people; however, there may be times when you and I will not agree on a particular subject. Know that I respect that, and I hope you will too. Do not get angry, and let us both always remain as friends, knowing we have a difference of opinion, yet still share so many others. Additionally, be it known some posts are in their most raw form, and you will find spelling and grammar mistakes, it’s just part of who I am.
Beneath the Red & White: A Long Weekend Unfurled
Canada Day is more than a holiday—it’s a quiet renewal of our shared promise. In the laughter, flags, and fireworks, we affirm what it means to stand for the True North, strong and free.
My Guide to the Perfect Early Summer Saturday
Some Saturdays arrive not with urgency, but with grace—slow breakfasts, quiet rituals, and the comforting cadence of ordinary life. In stillness, we found something finer than rest: presence
The Colours I Will Stand Behind
Where tradition meets discipline, and quiet strength wears blue, black, and white—this is where I choose to stand.
Forty-Three Candles Not Lit, But Carried
No candles. No ceremony. Just the quiet measure of a year lived with intention—through service, clarity, and the grace of those who walked beside me.
I do not count the years. I weigh them.
A Gentleman and His Creami: Indulgence Reforged
A gift I didn’t expect, for a craving I’ve learned to meet on new terms. My first homemade Creami—diabetic-friendly, sugar-free, and made with intention. It may not have looked like something from a patisserie window, but it was mine—crafted with care, and a little determination.
Bearing the Weight of Rank
Twelve days at the Senior Officer Training Course didn’t just prepare me for rank—it deepened my understanding of what it means to lead with purpose, clarity, and character. Over twenty-five years since I first wore the uniform, I return with more than knowledge—I return with intent
A Gathering of Service: The Ontario Council Convenes
The annual St. John Council for Ontario Conference remains a powerful reminder that the true strength of our Order lies not in ceremony, but in service. As Dr. Christopher McCreery reflected, “Each member is a thread in the fabric of a centuries-old mission.
The Sword & the Teacup: Strength Tempered by Grace
The sword may win battles—but it is the teacup that earns trust and leaves legacy. True leadership demands both strength and refinement. Be both.
Art Deco & the Geometry of Grace
The avocado green velvet chesterfield was the anchor—a bold declaration that glamour and comfort need not be mutually exclusive. What began as a décor project became a quiet manifesto: a room shaped not just for living, but for lingering.
In the Palm Leaves: Habits on Holiday
This week in Cayo Cruz has been a balance of luxury and discipline: early mornings, strong lifts, seaside BBQs, and good friends. I didn’t escape myself on vacation—I brought the best parts with me.
The Stillness Before Departure
To leave home well is to prepare not just our belongings, but our spirit. The bags may be heavy, the lists long, but the soul—mine, at least—had already set sail
The World at a Whisper: On Being Steady in Unsteady Times
The Invictus Games are not merely a celebration of sport—they are a movement of remembrance and renewal. From the silent strength of Canadian athletes to the enduring presence of veterans like Corporal Mark Ormrod, these Games remind us that fortitude, resilience, and grace are not only virtues—they are victories. In a world addicted to noise, the greatest power may yet lie in those who carry on... at a whisper
Gloves, Ink, and the Discipline of Small Habits
Refinement isn’t built in the spotlight. It’s etched into the margins of daily life—into the way one dresses, prepares, and carries on when no one is watching. Gloves, ink, a tended bonsai—each a quiet signature of discipline and deliberate living.
The Unwritten Oath: On Mentorship and Quiet Leadership
To be looked up to is not to be applauded—it is to be held to account. Even your silence teaches. Leadership is not declared in volume, but demonstrated in stillness. Be the mentor you once needed. Be the quiet strength someone is searching for now.